How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 02:59

How does one succeed in life?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Making more friends is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

When was the last time you had sex with someone much older than yourself?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Ask yourself:

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

That's it for today.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Procrastinates a lot.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0: